Alright ladies, let us be honest with ourselves. At one time or another we’ve hoped and prayed for “Mr. Right” to come along and have gone searching and searching, only to realize he’s not there! Of course we can’t help but ask ourselves “Why am I so unlucky in love?” “What did I do wrong?”. Well the answer to those questions is much simpler than we think and you may have even heard it before: You have to work on becoming Mrs. Right, because you can’t expect to find the man of your dreams if you don’t become the woman of his dreams.
Having the desire to find love with the right guy isn’t a bad thing to want; we all want to love and be loved in return. The problem arises when we focus too much on what we want in someone else without focusing on the qualities we need to develop within ourselves first. Think about the qualities you want in your “Prince Charming”, words such as loving, respectful, caring, patient, romantic, fun etc may come to mind. Now ask yourself this question: “Do I posses any of these qualities?” ” What qualities do I already have?” “What do I need to work on to improve myself?” write your answers down and be honest with yourself! If you want to really improve yourself, tell yourself the truth. On that note, don’t get discouraged; we all have flaws and that’s ok, your Knight In Shining Armor will have flaws too. Take baby steps in your self improvement; work on one thing at a time and toss those way too high expectations out the window. If you don’t have unrealistic expectations of yourself, you’ll be much more accepting of his weaknesses and love him for who he is. The best part of this? He loves you and accepts you for who you are!