Creating an illusion of beauty is done the same way sorry men create an illusion of being worth our time. It’s like some kind of hypnosis. All you do is confuse the person’s senses.
This is exactly what men do to us all the time. What they do is speak words that don’t match their actions. What we see them doing and what we hear them saying doesn’t match. We see a man who doesn’t do his part, yet we hear a man that loves us and wants to be with us. They confuse our senses, and our senses are powered by our brains, therefore they confuse our brains.
And what do we do when our senses aren’t receiving the same message? We fall for the message that is the most pleasing. Do you remember Ted Williams, the homeless man with the golden voice? He said that he would steal from stores, and he will get away by using his voice as a way to charm the store clerks. Basically, the clerk saw a poor man, but they heard a rich man. The way he appeared and the way he sounded didn’t match. And what they ended up doing was siding with what they heard because it was more pleasing.
This is what all of us women can do when it comes to our self image. We can confuse people’s senses. No matter how you look, you can still make people perceive you in a different light than what they see. You can still stimulate their other senses in positive ways. We all have five senses, so if you are lacking in one way, you can still stimulate the other four senses. If you are fat, but you smell good and you talk a good game, then you have an advantage. As far as the sense of touch/feeling, you may not want to touch everyone, but I do think that hugging someone or shaking someone’s hand is a sign that you are comfortable with yourself and with them. You can also make people feel good emotionally as a way to stimulate their sense of touch/feeling. And the sense of taste can be stimulated figuratively as “leaving a good taste in their mouth” by making a great impression.