Fun in the bedroom should be….well, fun. You shouldn’t have to fake it just because you are afraid of embarrassing your man. He wants to pleasure you but as long as you keep moanin’ and you groanin’, he will continue with the same tricks. The key is not to make him feel like an idiot. You don’t want him to feel like he is doing a bad job, you just want to show him that doing other things and touching other places puts you even MORE in the mood.
In order to do this right, you have to play a sexual game. That way you are showing him what to do but it is still sexy. You have probably heard of it, but if not, it is called Teacher/Student. Walk up to your man in something sexy and tell him you want to play a game. Drag him to the bedroom and tell him you are going to be his sex teacher and that you want him to play the innocent virgin student. He will absolutely love the idea without even questioning why you are doing it. At this point you can make him do whatever you want. But be sure to show how much pleasure you are in so he knows to use it next time in the bedroom. Also if he tries to do something on his own, slap his hand and tell him “NO.” Make him listen to you. After he sees what you like, he will be sure to use it again because not only does he see how much it pleases you, but he will be reminded of the image of you as his teacher.