Many people know about those butterflies in the stomach feelings you get right before you go on a first date with someone. First dates are important and are a perfect time to make a good first impression – it is where you introduce yourself and get to know about a person you are interested in pursuing a romantic, dating relationship with. No matter if it’s online or in person, a first date can lead to a real relationship if both people have a good time and find they are a good match for the other. First dates can be really enjoyable, but they can also go terribly bad. Use these helpful tips to help you have a fun, good first date and impression.
Learn a Little about Your First Date First
Before you go out on your first date with that special person, it’s smart to do some background research first. It is a good idea to find out what that someone likes to do, the types of food they enjoy, what there interests are, and what an ideal first date would be like for them. You can find most of this important info out just by asking their friends, or (if you are already that comfortable) asking your date beforehand.
Start with a Fun Activity for the First Date Night Out
While on the first date, it is a good idea to find a place or activity that is fun but simple, too. A good way to start a first date is with a dinner and a movie. According to Thinkquest.org, some good dinner options for a first time date “is a family restaurant.” By choosing a dining restaurant you are comfortable with, you will find yourself having more fun and being yourself throughout the date.
Be Friendly, Open, and Yourself with your Date
During the first date, remember to start an interesting conversation with your date. If you find that there is a lot to talk about and you’re both having a good time being yourselves, then there may be something special there. According to CNN, even if you “have had absolutely no time to date in the past” or have been cheated on or heartbroken previously, give your date a real chance. Talk about your likes, dislikes and interests – if it all goes well, you may just find that you have a lot in common during your conversation with your date than you would have guessed.
Let the Other Person Know How the Date Went
After the date is over and you’re about to drop your date off or say goodbye, remember to be honest and let him or her know how the first date went. If you are really interested in seeing your date again, then say so! Too many times do people make a real connection, but they are too shy or afraid to ever act on it. Yet if you feel your first date with the person was not good, be nice and tell him or her that it did not go as well as hoped, but it was good meeting them. In letting them how you feel right away after the first date, you will not let the other person wondering – and if there is a connection between the two of you, then get ready for some more fun on your second date!
Sources
Thinkquest.org
CNN.com