When my oldest two were little, we lived within walking distance of our local library. It became a habit to bundle them up and go exchange books and movies for something new. Trying to keep up the routine after we moved and added more children was not as easy. Then, somewhere along the way, my youngest developed a distaste for the library.
I made it a point to help turn her attitude around over the course of the year, maybe something we did will give you and your library resistant child a different attitude. If you are the resistant one, it is time you took another look. If money is tight, a trip to the library can make you feel indulgent.
Aside from books, remember libraries carry DVDs, CDs, magazines ,and sometimes even have a toy lending library. Create a ritual you can sustain regardless of your current income.
Set a schedule.
If the kids know Monday afternoon is library time, they will get used to the idea. Coincide with events held at the library if possible. Most libraries have kids programming throughout the week. Preschoolers may have the opportunity to attend story time, while older kids may do a “make and take” craft, or attend a short entertaining or educational program.
One on one time.
A one on one trip can make a big difference. My library hating daughter must have felt lost in the shuffle, but when we started making trips, just the two of us, the time became much more enjoyable. She didn’t turn around right away.
Focus on what they like
It may take a little while to figure out what your child enjoys reading, especially if they “cop a ‘tude” when walking into a library, but it can be done. If they are little, start with picture books of course, check out the board books, lift the flap books and even the extra large books.
Think out of the box
Some kids may not like fiction at all though. For those, try the non-fiction section. Let them look at pictures of real animals, people, cars, or interesting places. I was stumped until my daughter found the joke section. She started enjoying our visits when she found a book of riddles.
Give them their own library card.
There is pride in ownership. A little responsibility goes a long way. While I cannot give her twenty dollars to go pick out any toy she likes, I can let her use her library card to fill her tote bag once a week.
Stop and play.
One of the things my older kids remembered about our trips to the library when they were little was the time we spent playing with the toys. I completely forgot about the toys. The children section often has appropriate toys, a set of checkers or maybe a magnetic sand table. Slow down and let your child check them out. Sit down and play checkers. The change in location and peacefulness will do you good.