The Cause of Pain and Misery in the World and What to Do About It

There are 3 major reasons for the pain and misery in the world.

Reason One

Natural calamities-Hurricanes, Floods, Droughts, Earthquakes and like

Reason Two

Groups-Terrorists, politicians and ruthless companies

Reason Three

People-They may or may not belong to any group

I’ll focus on people-there are three categories of people in the world.

Category One

Born intelligent

Category Two

Not born intelligent, but willing to learn

Category Three

Born stupid, unwilling to learn

People belonging to third category are not even worthy of being called human.

These people remain dumb all their lives. They are BORN to harm others, to make others miserable. (They don’t even spare people who always do good to them)

They stay busy creating pain and misery for their fellow beings. (As if they have been sent by the devil himself to propagate his work).

They keep on doing stupid things one after the other, thinking that they can get away with it but the law of karma spares no one-it always gives back to them what they have been intending for others.

This is one of the biggest truths in the universe-WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. And then, these people complain that life has been unfair to them (Isn’t that hilarious?)

They keep getting bad luck, pain and misery in return but never see the point-The point that is so clear-They are getting what they have done to others.

The universe returns back everything multiplied-be it good or evil.

Are Only Bad People Responsible For the Pain And Misery In the World?

No, there are others too.

(Caution:-The next line may give you an ELECTRIC SHOCK, make sure you are not reading these words on the roof top of a skyscraper)

Ready?

The other people equally responsible for the chaos are-hold your breath!

The Good People.

What?

Yes!

It’s the good people who keep on tolerating bad people because they have been taught not to alienate or abandon bad people.

They are clinging to a false hope that someday bad people will turn good.

OH PLEASE! CUT THE CRAP! (You are a good person, have you changed into a bad one over the years-no you haven’t, because being good is your core and same is the case with bad people-their core is being bad).

The Biggest Mistake of Good People

This has been the biggest mistake of good people-they are extra nice.

This tendency of being extra nice has been harming them since eternity.

The time has come to understand one thing clearly-bad people are not worth keeping company because no matter how much good you have done to them, they will ultimately do evil to you.

Am I Being too Harsh? Read this first and then tell me.

One cousin of mine had called me to assist him in her younger sister’s marriage (He said-there’s no one to help, I need someone reliable and you are the right person).

At that time, I had joined a new company and was feeling a little hesitant to take a leave, but then out of sense of help and responsibility, I took 1 day leave, worked for 2 days and 2 nights like a bonded laborer to get all the things done.

I took my wife and son in the marriage function and got to know later that my cousin’s mother and father had done black magic to my son who was just 2 and half years old then.

He was vomiting constantly for about 20 days and we had a really hard time getting him cured. That was the REWARD I got for being reliable and good.

That was not the first time, those people had been troubling us with black magic since I could remember but like most good people, my parents also believe that good people are born to take all that shit and never say anything.

We had been bearing them without any valid reason and never thought of abandoning them.

But when they did it to my son, I was disgusted like hell and could not stand that.

And why they have been doing this? Out of sheer stupidity and jealousy. They are the kind of people who are more interested in putting others down rather than rising themselves up.

On that day I decided not to take all that anymore.

That was the last day I entered their house. For me, they have died forever.

What to Do About Such People?

There’s only one thing you can do-throw them out of your life(I am serious). Burn all the bridges associated with such people.

It needs COURAGE.

You have been made to believe not to burn any bridge, relations are supposed to be protected at any cost, anything should go sour but relations (Really? Even if it means putting your self-respect and dignity at stake?)

This kind of approach has a fear behind it-A fear that emerges in many forms, such as…

What if they are not bad (They just might be having a bad time? Really? Bad time does not continue for a life time and even if it does, you are not supposed to take that crap)

What if people think of me as unsocial or eccentric?

What if I could not achieve my goals without their help? (Do you think they are helping you?)

What if I don’t have the spine I think I have?

Contemplate-what is your true purpose? Making others happy the entire time at the cost of YOUR happiness and self respect?

Has god sent you on this planet to put everyone before you?

Don’t you have faith in your capabilities to make your dreams come true?

If you don’t have the guts, then keep saving those useless relations.

Let them treat you like a piece of shit.

Let them summon you to do all the rubbish work (Does it matter if you are talented?)

You should never burn the bridges-because you never know when you might need them again.

And you WILL need them again, you know why?

Because you are a stupid person with no self-respect and vision. You need someone to look up to for help all your life. You can’t stand on your feet.

I used to work for a private company-they made me work below my capability and constantly put me down in some way or the other. When I joined, they made one promise but never kept it.

Ultimately I realized what a fool I was taking all that, I decided to quit.

I resigned and burnt all the bridges. (Sometimes you need to push yourself a little too hard to become self reliant)

Next Time, When You Are Trying NOT to Burn the Bridges, Ask Yourself

Is the effort worth it?

Will I not be happy if I rather burn this bridge forever?

Am I a spineless creature with no self-respect and dignity?

Don’t I have the guts to be what I want to be?

Have all the loving and supportive people vanished from my life?

Wake up kid!

You’ve compromised a lot for the sake of relations.

You’ve lost many valuable years of your life tolerating negative and useless people.

You’ve been put down time after time.

Stand tall and say NO to the people responsible for creating pain and misery in your life. Do it NOW!


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