There are women that find thrills in messing around with a married man and they are not ashamed to say that they do. No matter how many times your husband turns her down, some women just won’t take no for an answer. Wives work too hard trying to groom, nurture and school their husbands on how they want to be treated and how to love them just for other women to reap the benefits. Regardless of the rule “Finders, Keepers,” your husband will always be a hot commodity to this particular group of women. If you have fallen victim to the other woman, here is some advice on keeping your husband’s attention:
Keep the spice in your sex life.
This becomes a problem in many marriages. Sex often becomes a routine and eventually is just not fun anymore. Let him know how sexy you still think he is or send him a sexy text message about what you want to do to him tonight. Blow him a kiss or wink at him from across the room while you are fixing his dinner. No matter how tired you are, never tell your husband no. A man will only take no for so long and then eventually he will go and find someone who will tell him yes. All of these little things lost over a period of time really make a big impact on a couple’s sex life.
Keep yourself up.
I know it is hard taking care of a house, kids, and then trying to cater to your husband at the end of the day. I’m sure every mother and wife at some point in time have felt like they are not sexy anymore or has lost that spark to stay looking good and feeling sexy. Regardless of what chores you have to do around the house, you have to make time to fix your hair and put a nice outfit on before your husband gets home. They have pretty women everywhere that he may run into on a daily basis. For him to pass those woman up showing their cleavage and flaunting what they have around him to come home to you with rollers in your hair and warm ups on all the time becomes a disappointment after a period of time. You have to remind him of why he is the luckiest man in the world and keep his attention or someone else with get it.
Get more involved in his extra-curricular activities.
If he is going for a stroll on the beach or a ride on his motorcycle ask if you can join him. Men emphasize that they want time to themselves but they also love for their woman to take an interest in their past times every once in a while. Don’t make a habit of trying to invite yourself all the time but don’t get too comfortable with him going and coming all the time. Eventually with him gone all the time can easily turn into him being gone all night. Everyone is entitled to their own space away from each other and a man won’t feel like a man if you are under him all the time. Also, If your husband asks you to join him and you use the “no babysitter” card on him, that’s just an excuse. If you have problems finding a babysitter try calling a few relatives, friends, and even the parents of a classmate of your child (children) that they may play with outside of school to set up a play date or a slumber party while you and your husband enjoy that time alone. Doing this you may find out that another couple may need a few nights alone and both of you can help each other by alternating nights or even weekends.