How long does it take to mend a broken heart or recover from a wound made by dagger that pierced right through the heart? It was nothing less than a one-shot,fatal blow. Does it take a few months, a year, or are you left with an irrecoverable wound that is too deep to ever stop bleeding, a wound that will be unable to heal and become a scar, but remain forever open, and thus, you’re left with a hollow heart? Memories can be replaced, but they are hard to be forgotten. Some repetitive memories stack too heavily on one’s heart and weigh it down. How does one happily walk through life with a heavy heart? Why force the continuation of a relationship that should have long been given up? Why do people like to create self misery and affliction when it comes to questions of love? When the relationship is on the brink of falling apart, it only takes one tiny disturbance for the explosion. Will your eternal disappearance make another ponder and miss your shadow?
Has your tiny footprints make an everlasting and replaceable imprint in another’s heart?
Perhaps, things in life are ever-changing and not meant to last, and only a fool believes in the permanence of love.
Perhaps,promises are meant to be broken, smiles into frowns, laughter into tears.
Be happy when tears are pouring; that’s a sign of hope because you can still feel. On the contrary, be very aware of the calm, stoic and static expression. This emotionless state is like the calm before a storm. Too much trust ends in utter disappointment, why doesn’t one listen to that inner voice inside telling one to not place so much trust in another person? Why does a person in love keep trying, keep listening to the source that will wound that person? Must one close the heart in order to protect it from pain? It’s not better to have experience love than not be loved at all. That cliche that it is better to love than not to love at all is incorrect. This principle will drain you lifeless, take away your zeal, and the repetition of the same type of disappointment from a broken heart endless times will cause you to become cold, bitter, and heartless. To be kind to others is to be cruel to yourself. No, one should still helps yet do not place too much emotion in relationships. Help random strangers and don’t get attach. Administer the emotionless “the no strings attached policy” this will fare well.
An ordinary girl in an ordinary world experiencing extra-ordinary things and pondering on life’s common contradictions of love and hate, break up and make up, and disappointment and hope. Yet, the fat lady of the opera hasn’t sung, the show must go on. If only merits and debts become transferable? This would allow others to break free from the mind-bogging and heart-wrenching cycle of love.
Source
Personal Experience