Is a quirky habit driving him quietly crazy? Maybe! The truth is some of those cute habits he secretly hates but which habits? It’s hard to tell with guys – most don’t want to offend. Every girl wants to be herself around the man she loves; however, your little rituals might actually push him away. So which habits are the top offenders? I polled my circle of guy friends and this is what they had to say.
Blowing kisses: Surprisingly, one of the top cute habits he secretly hates. Thankfully, I never do this but apparently a lot of gals do. Stop ladies! No blowing kisses. He thinks it’s lame.
Baby talk: Seinfeld isn’t the only guy who hates the rampant gushing of maternal girlfriends. (aka baby talk) Even if you can prompt him to participate, he’s hating it. Say no to baby talk.
Pet names: Okay, so this subject was a mixed bag. Some guys don’t mind pet names when the two of you are alone but when hanging out with his peer group, that’s a big negative. Also, a few poll participants say that they prefer you use their real name as opposed to “baby,” “honey,” or “darling” during more intimate times.
Affection contests: “No, I love YOU more.” (Insert eye roll here.) This “cute” habit he really hates, trust me. Hanging out on the phone is exciting but when the conversation is over, don’t make him recite “I love you” a thousand times.
Monthly moodiness: This is kind of not a habit you can control but it does drive them crazy. A few pollers confessed they track monthly moodiness so they aren’t blindsided by it. Get a grip on your monthly mood swings and give him a break.
Stealing the covers: Are you a cover hog? He might say it doesn’t bother him, but freezing in the middle of the night really stinks. Don’t be a cover hog. This cute habit might be funny but it’s inconsiderate. Spring for a slightly larger blanket than the two of you need or buy solo blankets so no one is left out in the cold.
Borrowing his razor: Dulling down his razor with your hairy legs isn’t nice. Here’s what happens. You shave with his razor then put it back where it belongs. Your unsuspecting boyfriend cuts his face because you’ve dulled the blades. Ladies, he really hates that. Stop it!
The list of quirk complaints is endless and truthfully, it works both ways. Guys, we’ll polish up our act but please remember, the toilet seat works both ways!
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