Sometimes when it comes to sex men are clueless. They just don’t understand the way a woman works. We’re not talking about the actual anatomy here, that is an entirely different issue. We are talking about the little things you do or don’t do that ruin the mood for your lady. These are some common things you should avoid doing to avoid ruining the mood.
Avoid patterns:
Avoiding patterns in your sex life is important. If you are a creature of habit, you can easily become predictable and thus a little undesirable. For example, if you only offer to massage your girl when you want sex, she is going to pick up on it and will start rejecting you and your massages. This goes for any behavior you only do when you want sex. It can be something as simple as the things you say. If you normally only say: “I love you” a few times a day, and on the days you want sex you say it excessively, she is going to notice. Make sure you are putting as much thought into your efforts to get your lady into the mood as you would to please her in bed. Be creative, ladies love that.
Hygiene:
Nothing will ruin the mood faster than poor hygiene. While you may hear that women love the natural smell of a man, this doesn’t mean that funky smell you have after a long hard day at work. Body odor of any kind will kill the mood. Your lady doesn’t want to smell your feet, underarms, bad breath, or your gas. Always be sure to shower and brush your teeth before even thinking about setting the mood for sex. Also, even though you may think it’s funny to watch people around you freak out from the smell of your gas, try your best to avoid smelling up the place. You want her running into your arms, not running to get away from your smells.
Your private parts:
Yes gentlemen, we know how extremely important your parts are to you. We know you are very proud of them, but your girl doesn’t want them flashed in her face. Men seem to think because the mire sight of a woman’s private parts turns them on, it’s going to work on their lady as well. It’s true, it may work on some women, but for the most part ladies aren’t turned on just from the sight of their guy’s private parts. Instead of letting it all hang out, try strutting around the house in a nice pair of silk pajama pants or doing in a load of laundry in your best pair of boxer shorts. Leaving a little to the imagination is usually a better tactic when it comes to setting the mood for your lady.
It’s important to remember that for most women, sex is more emotional than physical. Sure, your lady wants the physical part too, but getting them in the mood begins with the emotional stuff. Even if the emotional stuff doesn’t get you going, it’s probably important for her. Taking the time to woo your lady by showing her you’re willing to go over and beyond her expectations will help you reach your goal for the evening.