There is a ton of information about how a man can please a woman, including secret sensitive spots that many men forget. However, men are less willing to talk about sensation than women, so women are left to fend for themselves and discover the spots men love touched the most. Every man is different, but there are at least 10 tried and true sensitive spots that your man may not even realize exist. After 20 years with the same man, I’ve learned that not every sensual spot is located in the love-making area — but, some are.
Think thin skin. Next time you’re playing in bed with your man, take a look at his skin. The areas with thinner skin tend to be more sensitive. Skin on the neck, inner thighs and ears are perfect for nibbling or simply running a light finger over during foreplay. The tingly feeling he gets from these areas is more powerful than he wants you to know.
Take him to another level, but be careful – he may be scared. There is also a bit of thin skin between the anus and scrotum. This area is thought to be the location of the male G spot. A man’s reaction to stimulating this area may depend on how the area is stimulated. Try a few techniques, including tickling, kissing and rubbing with pressure. Take note of his reaction to each technique — you’ll find the one that’s best for your man.
Some men are a bit frightened of any stimulation that occurs near the anus. Don’t move too quickly and talk to him along the way to ease his stress. Stress may impede the sensitive or sensual response.
The alternative G spot – this one’s not for everyone. There are some reports that the true location of a man’s G spot is just inside the anus. Stimulating this area is identical to the way a man stimulates a woman’s G spot, but women are more accustomed to vaginal stimulation than a man is to anal stimulation. Before attempting to find this sensitive spot, you may want to talk it over with your man. If he’s all for a little exploration, use lots of lube because the anus does not produce natural lubrication.
The inevitable go-to areas are always a sure bet. The tip of the penis and underside of the shaft are two well-known sensitive areas. However, varying pressure and speed when stimulating these areas can change his reaction more than you may think.
Don’t be afraid to try something new. Some men find it amazingly sensual for women to caress their back, legs, chest or feet. Other men simply have no touch response to these areas. When trying to find new sensitive spots on your man, make a game of it. Have him lay down while you gently massage his body with warm oil. Explore everywhere with light touch and watch his reaction. When you find an area he clearly loves being stimulated, vary your touch to find the perfect reaction.
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