Dating rules are not always clear and defined, because it’s always changing with each generation of society. Nevertheless, there are clues that will tell you when a man just is not interested in you. There are things he will say and do – or not say and do – to make it apparent that he would like you to leave him alone. Pay attention to these signs to keep from turning into that pesky female that just will not leave him alone:
1. He’s Probably Not Interested If….He Does Not Return Your Calls or Contacts You
He’s not interested in you. So, you have exchanged phone numbers, perhaps talked a couple times over the phone. When you get hold of him on the phone, does he response back to you within a moderate time and appears happy to talk to you? Does he have anything to discuss with you? Or does he reply with a single word response, if he answers the phone at all? He says, he doesn’t have a time to call or talk with you. Nonsense! The actual reason is that you’re not on his mind. If a man tells you that he will contact you and doesn’t go through with it, he might not follow through on things related to you. You might need to conduct a background research. Is he working two jobs and in school? Is he actually bad about responding back to people? Is he a socialite with a busy schedule? Is he dating multiple women? Or is he just not into you. If you call a guy, and he does not answer, it’s a sign that he isn’t interested. The baffling thing is how many women disregard this sign or fail to see it.
2. He’s Probably Not Interested If….He Tells You Not To Contact Him Again
He told you not to contact him anymore. It does not take a rocket scientist to understand that statement. However, you would be amazed how many women fail to understand that statement.
3. He’s Probably Not Interested If….He Only Contact You When he Wants Something
He isn’t interested in taking things forward. He only wants sex, food, and money when he’s around. If you have already given him sex, food, and money, his next contact is to set up his next booty call, dinner or cash collection. He generally directs the conversation towards telling you how good looking you’re and how he cannot wait to visit you again. He makes last minute plans with you. You are happy about the call that you don’t understand that he is not into you, or he thinks that you have no life but to wait on his calls. You are probably one of the women on his calling list and not his first call.
4. He’s Probably Not Interested If….He Avoids Getting To know You Better
He avoids deep discussions with you. He prefers to know what he needs to do to get what he needs from you. If a man wanted to know you, he will ask questions about you, your family, goals and what you want in life. Have you been going out for a month or more and have never met his family and friends, he’s just not that into you. When a man finds a great catch, he will want to show her off to friends and family. If you have not met his friends and family, you aren’t that girl. You’re only around him and not integrate into his life. If that hasn’t happened yet, then you’re not the woman that he wants to settle down with for the long haul.
5. He’s Probably Not Interested If….He Does Not Want A Relationship Or Marriage
If he tells you that he does not want to be involved in a relationship or take things further for example marriage or a long term relationship. He might still be hooking up with other females. If he still keeps improper contact with ex-girlfriends or other female friends, he is not ready to spend time with you. He’s probably out there searching for someone else.
Do not be that woman who fails to see and read these important signs. Remember that there are plenty other men out there that would not mind spending time and doing the right thing by you.
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