You’ve been there before, lying in bed after a date, your mind racing through the details of the night, searching for a clue to reveal whether or not there will be a second date. Sometimes this situation can cause a sleepless night and leave you wishing he had provided a clear signal. Believe or not, he probably did! Here are five signs he’s not interested: He showed up late
Obviously, being late isn’t always intentional. But if a guy really wants to be on time, he will take the appropriate measures. Arriving late to pick you up for a date only shows that you are not high on his priority list, especially if he does not apologize. He did not have a plan
Sure, it may seem like he’s being considerate by asking you where you would like to eat, but it could also be that he didn’t think it was important enough to put any thought into it himself. This becomes painfully obvious when he has to drive around searching for the restaurant you suggest, or picks a cheap, fast-food style restaurant if you do not make a suggestion. He finished dinner quickly
You make it to the restaurant, the waiter places the menus on the table, and your date immediately orders his food. After dinner, he declines dessert without consulting you and asks for the check. These are sure signs that he is anxious to get dinner – and the date – over with. He was quiet on the way home
The only thing worse than an awkward silence, is a silence that he’s perfectly content with. If he does not attempt to break the silence and does not seem nervous about the quiet ride, then he’s not just shy, and you can bet he’s not interested in you. He did not walk you to the door
No goodnight kiss can mean he’s being respectful. But if he leaves the car running and does not unbuckle his seat belt right away, he is sending a strong signal that he is not interested in walking you to your door. If he is unwilling to do this basic gesture, then move on and sleep tight – he’s not interested in you.