I’ve never been one to go into the date with expectations: I say this because then you make the date a schedule or routine, then you will blow it, and well life is not bullet points and spreadsheets. Never go into the date with the attitude that your trying to make him like you or think your funny, this will simply not work.
Driving Him Wild
Never before has making that hot guy go goo goo over you been easier, try this on your next date and surely you’ll have him running back for more: Be revealing, but not too revealing, you can be a fashionista and bombshell all wrapped into one. Wear a low neck lined shirt showing cleavage, or wear a skirt. trust me men men fall head over heels for this stuff.
The Moments That Last
You want to create a mood where you make him feel like he would rather be nowhere but here with you. Don’t treat the date as thought you have set a timer this will only add to the tension and make things worse.
Here is some answers to some most asked questions about dating blunders
I’m a nervous wreck!
Just know that he is just as nervous as you and that this goes with the territory and things will be alright, one way to break the ice is to have a drink, preferably a drink of your choice a Cosmo is good, and if he drinks then all the better, the alcohol will serve as a mood enhancer and take the edge off of the tension you may have built up throughout the day whether from work or may be too much caffeine so go for it.
What if he doesn’t like me?
Refer to the first paragraph, I’m kidding, no don’t worry if he will like you or not, just jump right in the deep end and go with it let the mood and atmosphere flow and don’t give it another moment’s notice. There were many times when I dated and the women just looked so terrible nervous that it could make any man feel uncomfortable, well not me of course but trust me, he likes you or else he wouldn’t be there, and the same goes for blind dates.
Yes but what if I don’t like him when I meet him
Look your over thinking this way too much, if you don’t like him then let him go, be straightforward direct and cut the date off right where it began don’t feel guilty, why go through the torture it just isn’t worth it.
Expecting that men require you to have standards, men don’t think this way, they can care less about standards when they first meet you. There isn’t too many mistakes you can make on a first date as you don’t know the guy I know this goes contradictory to all or most relationship advice but truth is just be yourself, think outside the box. Go with the flow, because the minute you begin to over think everything you will lose. Another thing is expecting the date to be relationship material, what I mean by this is going into the date with too high expectations, it will ruin the whole date, for example, let him tell you what he does for a living don’t automatically ask this, men hate this one and it is a sure fire way of killing the mood. You can learn of this later, it is not important, think back to your fondest childhood memories and that should do, always be playful that’s a plus.