A friend of mine asked the “old age question” Why do men cheat? Men cheat for a variety of reasons. Once a woman start dating a man and she gets comfortable with him; that’s when things go sour. The woman will start dressing differently, acting differently, and doing things that she did not do before. Why change? I believe that the woman should be the same woman that the man became interested in. I see plenty of married couples who come to me and the husband is upset because his wife does not dress sexy anymore. Women makes excuses to justify; why she is not dressing in a certain way anymore. Majority of times they blame their child(ren). Women, just because you had a baby(ies) does not mean you have to start dressing unattractive. I’m 27-years-old and I have 7-year-old twin daughters and I dress sexy just to go to Wal-Mart. I am single and when that special man does come along; I will keep my same glamour.
There is no excuse to justify why a man cheat. I believe the man should communicate with his wife/girlfriend if something is bothering him. Going to another woman is not the proper way to do things and it will create more problems in the end. There are also some women who does not satisfy their husbands/boyfriend sexual needs. Majority of women do not enjoy performing oral sex. Women, there is nothing wrong with giving a man oral sex. In order for him to enjoy it; you have to enjoy it as well. If you’re not comfortable with it; just practice on a cucumber, bananas, or a sex toy. I’m not saying that doing these things will stop a man from cheating; because a man will cheat if he wants to but these things can definitely help.