Scars in Our Hearts

Yes, scars are sometimes permanent.
Unless if we do plastic surgery to remove it, the scars will always be there. For example, when i was a kid like 4 years old, i was naughty and one day, i pretended i was David Beckham and tried to bend it like Beckham did his free kicks. I tried to slice a big kick and tried to bend a pillow which i pretended was a ball in my parent’s bedroom and i missed kicked horribly and hit the corner of the wooden bed frame right above on my left eye brow. I was bleeding badly and my mom came home from work immediately and brought me to the hospital to stitch me up. Ever since then, i had a permanent scar on my left eye brow. Even the eye brows couldn’t grow back on that particular scar. It was permanent. Anyways, that was just an example of what a scar is.

The main point of the whole article starts here.

Things that has happened in your life will always be there in the past and also in your memories. It will never go away, i have to agree. But some of us have not really got on with life after that recent event of bad memories. We all have regrets in our life.

What we must do is not dwell in the past but to move on with life. If we don’t this will just make the scars even bigger and much more painful than ever before. Keeping on moving in life is the key for us to forget and forgive the past and be a better person in the future. Unless we have a time machine like the “back to the future” car that can travel through space and time, then we have no choice but to forget about changing what we have already done in the past. That is why it is called the past anyways. The time has already pass and can never turn back time again.

What we do now in the present is what matters most. So if you are still dwelling in the past that “i shouldn’t have done this or that” or “If i had that chance, I would have taken it that time” or “i hope i shouldn’t have done that to her that time” and so on. Just forget the past and move on.

We are humans after all. We all make mistakes don’t we. We are all not perfect human beings.

But sometimes we make mistakes that we couldn’t forgive ourself for it. Nobody in this world is perfect, and that is a fact! Let me tell you something. Once a baby is born, what does the baby know. Basically nothing at all. No knowledge whatsoever except to cry when hungry or when there is a need to change diapers every now and then. We build ourselves slowly throughout the years and experience gained in life. Experience are most often gained through mistakes. Yes, i repeat, we learn from our mistakes even though the mistake was a bad one. To tell the truth, everyone makes mistakes, even Thomas Edison makes mistakes and things don’t work for him, but he never gave up.

Here is one of the quotes from our famous inventor

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”, Thomas A. Edison.

Decisions are sometimes very tough in life. Like who we choose to trust or who we think are good may eventually end up bad. Nobody ever said making decisions is easy. But even though if we make a mistake in that certain decision, we mustn’t give in. Giving up is not an option. If you give up, then life for you will be hard. I’m sorry to tell you this, but yes, the truth hurts anyways.

Here is another quote from Thomas Edison.

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”, Thomas A. Edison.

Like Thomas Edison, he found thousands of ways and techniques which doesn’t work, but he is successful in inventing things which others never tought of. Only this kind of person can be successful in life. He tried and tried and kept on trying on his inventions until he succeeds. He never gave up until he was successful. So you too, don’t give up easily.

You must be saying now that you are not good enough to be doing what you are doing now. Let me tell you. We are all born without knowledge. We all learn things bit by bit. We crawl, then we walk, then we run. We don’t know our maths immediately. We learn slowly from our teachers and lecturers who teaches us the art and craft of the subject. You say that you’re not good in certain stuffs. Well, now is the time to start learning. There is a saying that practice makes perfect right? Well to me perfection is not perfecting your skills or your technique. It is about letting go and let loose. Learn from those mistakes and make good use of those hard experience to good use. Maybe in the future when your son or daughter face the same situation, you can advice them because you already went through it.

He had hope that it will work. And faith that he will find a way to make it work. And finally the love for it that made him never give up.

The key to all our struggles in life is to never ever give up. We may make mistakes that may hurt us so deep that it may seem impossible to stand back up. But remember this, do not attempt to go on a path alone. Being a lone wolf isn’t the answer. It can just deepen our wounds even more. Gather with your friends and family. I assure you that they are there to help you. To guide you and also to support you throughout all your struggles and your whole livelihood .


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