Technology has opened up the world to our children. It really can be a wonderful tool, giving kids access to information, education, and entertainment. It can also present real risks for kids of all ages. As a mom to kids ranging in age from elementary to young adulthood, the temptation to ban the use of all electronics: phones, computers, tablets, video games, pops up from time to time.
Set clear boundaries
It is always better to be proactive with discipline. If kids clearly know the rules, and the consequences, it is easier to hold them accountable for their actions. Put time limits in place. Unsupervised, technology can take over a child’s free time. If you leave your children with babysitters, be sure they are well-informed regarding the families rules.
Maintain privacy, but not in isolation.
It is also important to set limits on what information is shared online. Kids may not see the big picture or comprehend that what they write online has an incredibly long shelf life. One way to prevent over sharing is to keep the computers in a central, high traffic area. When the screen can be seen by other family members, there is a little more accountability.
Take advantage of technology
Filtering software and parental controls are useful tools. Double check social networking sites to keep information private and don’t be afraid to be a little nosy. You would not let your son or daughter hop in the car with a stranger. If you do not trust a site, or an individual, you have the right to stop them, ask questions or block the stranger altogether.
Communication leads to respect
With all that said, technology comes second nature to children growing up in this culture. They are not hesitant or confused by the fast pace and can easily figure out the lingo. While I love my computer, smart phone and other nifty electronic tools, my children seem to know more than I do at every turn. That is okay with me. I respect their innate knowledge and often ask for help. Rather than shutting them out or saying no before I understand, letting them teach me creates a culture of respect.
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