What do people do when they have a failure or make a mistake in their lives? Do they allow it to devastate their self-esteem and self-confidence; thus, stealing their energy to try again or do they vow not to repeat their failure or their mistake again but use it as a learning tool and move-on in their lives? People need to consider failures and mistakes as an education instead of having feelings of failure and worthlessness.
In everyone’s daily lives, people cannot allow failures and mistakes to rob them of their self-worth and self-image but realize they must failure does not rule them (they’re the one who holds the key to their successes and they’ll not allow failure to defeat them). They’ll not become weakened by failure but they’ll accept it as a means of strengthening their mind and increasing their will and desire to move on while having a positive can-do attitude of being educated from the failure or mistake they’ve made.
Do you know that many people who have had a failure or suffered a bad mistake in their lives end up without any self-confidence or self-esteem for the remainder of their lives? It’s my opinion, this is the reason many people fear experiencing new interests because they’re suffering from fear and they’re afraid of repeating it again. They remain in a deadlock position because they’ve lost their confidence and are afraid to try anything new ever again. The longer they allow the fear to fester in their minds, the worse it will become until it cripples them.
Failure destroys many people’s confidence and causes them to fear they’ll do it again. People need to discuss their failures and mistakes with those who can help them overcome fear to move on with a healthy active life. Nip it in the bud before the fear overtakes them…fear can brew anxiety attacks and jeopardize a person’s health. Everyone experiences failure or mistake at some point in their lives, and yes, at the time, we do feel incompetent but we need to consider the failure is a learning tool for educating us of our failures. Don’t allow fear to burst your bubble for happiness, seek help before it festers and destroys your confidence!
We, as parents, need to discuss “failures and mistakes” with our young children and teach them that “all” people have failed at different things in their lives and they’ll continue to fail because this teaches to be strong able bodied people. We’re not to give up when we suffer a failure but we accept it and move on with an education under our hats and not to repeat it again.