Solve the Biggest Problem in a Relationship!

Have you ever looked at the person you love so dearly and wished you could shake some sense into them? Of course you have, it is natural to feel this way time to time as a result of a disagreement or some sort of conflict. However, let’s dig deeper into this strange phenomenon where love and frustration can switch places in an instant.

Life can pose many challenges in our day-today activities that make us irritable, rude, and unpleasant to be around, but what is it that makes us fight with our closest loved ones? Miscommunication. It is the result of talking past one another instead of listening to each other. Make no mistake, there is a HUGE difference between the two. My fiancé and I argue and fight at times just like any other couple; however, we always make up and end up loving each other more after the conflict has been resolved. Now you may be asking, how can you solve every issue and argument? Well, the answer is not in solving the argument as strange as that may sound. Quite frankly, each side only wants to be understood. By listening to my fiancé, I understand her position and where she is coming from in the argument. Even though we may not agree on things after we listen to one another, there is no real reason to fight because we understand each other much better.

So the next time you get into a tough spot, take a second and breathe. Don’t talk or get your temper out of control. Try listening to what the other person is saying, not just hearing what they are talking about. Understanding your loved ones is the most crucial part to any relationship. We all want to be loved, but more importantly, we all want to be understood.


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