Should You Quit Your Job?

I’m a life coach and help people live the life of their dreams so I always get asked “Do you think I should quit my job?”. I’ve even had someone say “See that woman over there? She’s my boss and I hate her, what advice do you have for me?”

To be honest, if you hate your job then it’s not about if but WHEN you should quit and do something else.

I’m serious. Because if you do something that you hate, eventually something’s gotta give – your health, your sanity, your relationship, your self esteem and your overall happiness.

A bad job, complete with the boss from hell can scar your confidence for years. A boring or mediocre job gives you permission to live a boring or mediocre life.

Some people love their jobs. It suits their unique skills and talents and the job gives them the right amount of money, life-style and personal fulfilment. Does that sound like you? Probably not, otherwise you wouldn’t have been interested in reading this article (especially if you’re at work right now!).

Let’s quit the pretence for a moment. A lot of people are only tolerating their job because they don’t have the choice to leave. Some people loathe every second of their work and it spreads into every area of their life until every shred of happiness is sucked out of them.

But Denise, everyone has to work. It’s the reality of life!

Yes, that’s true. We all have to earn money. But who decided that we had to suffer or be bored by what we do 40 hours a week?

Forget what your parents or other people think – you can still earn money but you do not have to hate your job. You are allowed to earn money in a way that fulfils you as a person.

You’re even allowed to love your job.

There are hundreds of different jobs that you could do instead of one that you hate. You can still be a responsible adult, one who earns money, but why not be someone who is in love with their job!

Get clear on the impact

If you’re not sure if you should quit your job, look at the impact it has on your life.

How is your current job affecting or supporting these areas of your life?

Health & Vitality

Do the hours work for you and your lifestyle or family commitments? Is the environment a healthy one? Do you get enough fresh air, light and personal space? Do you lie awake at night thinking about work problems? Is your job compromising your health or physical body in any negative way? Do the people you work with make you feel happy or miserable?

Wealth & Abundance

Are you happy with your salary, commission or benefits? Do you feel valued and appreciated for the value you offer? Are you able to do the things that you want to do? Do you have enough money to live the life you want?

Fulfilment

Do you feel satisfied after a working week? Are you making a difference with your work? Does your job stretch and challenge you mentally? Do you enjoy your day or do you watch the clock constantly?

Hand on heart – are you doing what you love?


People also view

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *