Most people look forward to the fun and excitement of family vacations. But for a child with autism, the new surroundings of a vacation can be frightening, and the change in schedule a confusing experience. If you are planning a family vacation with a child with autism, a little preparation and planning can help take the fear out of traveling and make the trip an enjoyable experience for everyone.
Transportation
Whether it’s a long car ride or a catching a flight, I’ve always hated travel days, so I can only imagine how uncomfortable they are for someone with autism. Whether traveling by car or plane, pack plenty of familiar things to keep your child occupied, such as music, portable games and dvds, and some favorite snacks. If your family plans to fly, remember that a child with autism may find some of the process quite traumatic, from the hassles of airport security to the ear-popping pressure changes on an airplane. Make sure to explain in detail everything you plan on encountering, and even create a schedule if possible. Rehearse things you might encounter at security checkpoints, like taking off shoes and getting a pat-down.
Choose your Location Wisely
People with autism are usually hyper-sensitive to sensory input like loud noises and excess movement. If this sounds like your child, it is probably best to avoid crowded theme parks, which tend to be very noisy and filled with commotion. Having said that, some kids with autism find the new sensations of amusement park rides quite thrilling!
Beach vacations are popular family destinations, and many of the children with autism that I have worked with enjoy a day at the beach. Beaches offer a quiet, peaceful setting for kids to explore at their own pace, and kids with autism typically enjoy the calming sensations of playing in the warm sand.
You may have dismissed museums as part of your vacation for fear of inappropriate behavior, but many museums have “hands-on” children’s exhibits set up, which your child may enjoy.
Regardless of which location you choose, children with autism will find it comforting to know exactly how long they will be away from home, so keep a calendar handy to refer to.
If you do Plan on Visiting a Theme Park…
If an amusement park is on the agenda during your vacation, consider bringing some music or portable games for your child in case they need a break from the crowds or noise. Make sure to provide a thorough description of what to expect on any rides you might go on (fast speeds, darkness, water) so there are no surprises once the ride begins. Many parks, such as Disney World and Six Flags Great Adventure, offer special passes for children with disabilities that allow families to bypass the ride lines. Check out sites like Disney for Families with Autism for information and advice from other parents who have taken similar trips.
Safety
Of course safety is always the number one priority, but we all know how easy it is to get caught up in the excitement and fast pace of a vacation. A few simple preparations can help ensure the safety of a child who has autism. It is a good idea to have an ID tag or bracelet attached to your child on the wrist or a visible clothing article like the shirt or shoes. On the ID, include the child’s name, as well as your contact information and any special medical needs of the child. Also, carry the child’s photo with you at all times, so that you can refer to it with park security should your child wander off.
Family vacations can generate memories that will last a lifetime, especially when the entire family travels together. If you are vacationing with a child with autism, remember that it is probably a very confusing and scary time for them. But with the right preparation and planning, family vacations can become something they truly enjoy and look forward to.
Sources: Time Magazine
Disability Resource Directory
Personal experience as a behavior therapist