In prison you’ll find many boys trying to pretend they are men around other men . Which details many irresponsible souls that never comprehended the role, of what it takes to be called a man? Let alone a father if they have a child.
A boy that speaks adoring of his father will grow into being a man. A man who respects his father will become a man. Men step up to the plate of responsibility when obstacles comes to them. Be,it from an vindictive ex-lover, spouse concerning their chid. In situations, where many “I Love To Be Single households with mothers avoiding marriages , but have children’s a male child doesn’t get taught serious strength, of a man.
I’ll admit some single mothers has done wonders raising kids alone. But, when listening to some adults, it seems they hold a grudge against the father, without knowing the exact truth, of their parent relationship. A good mental mind to share in raising the child plays wonders, in a male son understanding manhood. Many single females raises daughters and sons alone, without marriage being mention because, of modeling themselves upon parents relationships. They have this “I Don’t Need A Man” attitude that concerns them. But, need to comprehend that the child needs them in cases, of having a closeness, with their father.
Remember boys, without a great male example will only be a boy growing into pretending to be a man. As, a man can’t raise a female child, without a woman’s guidance. The same applies concerning the son, where mothers can’t teach him the way of life. Yes, fathers plays a serious part in a boy life much more than the credit they receives.
Notice, the male athletes admiration, from being raised in a single mother home, by their admiration concerning them. While in the same compliment their very own father don’t get mention. Why? Because, a connection was missed in bonding them together. Now, in some situations, where the father’s on drugs or living a very destructive life. I support keeping that child away, from this adult stupidity. Notice, in this mother raised me situation that most boys hardly venture out on their own to live alone.
While men live on their own. Women seeks men but accepts boys use to living together as mates. Then seems shocked and amazed when he forever guided, by a intrusive mother in the relationship. A mother advises, but doesn’t lead you to the point that they get tossed th blame for the failure, of the relationship.
Grant Hill and Allan Houston, and quite a few others that played professional sports had parents. Notice, the plural over the singular term. And, in my opinion was guided greatly into MANHOOD. Men guide sons, with taching responsibility and principles, of life. Again, anything single needs assistance to go further in their own life anyway. So, I’m essentially saying fathers that kepted way because, of affairs or a mother hurt feelings isn’t helping the child to understand nothing but vengance.
Boys don’t know the task that comes, with being seen as a man. We have users and abusers walking dailiy n relationships. Because, they either witnessed the way to use another. Or, witnessed the way to abuse another. If , mom used men to accomplished get bills paid then the odds are great many male child when use their significant other to accomplish their goals too. And, we very aware that boys that watches men abuse women the odds double that he will think it’s acceptable too in a relationship.
A controlling man isn’t nothing but a male that was never guided truthfully to love kindly. Weakness coomes across as strength to them to the point that they completely blind to, what it takes to be a man? Saying, I’m a man doesn’t make it so. You got to walk the road to that goal. And, a father that accepts the path can only guide his child to a better view of life. Let’s remember, we only responsible to lead them, with advice and wisdom until the turn eighteen. Why? Because any mistakes they make as an adult that wasn’t made in their youth is settle upon them.
So, for a boy to be a man. A good example plays a very important part in that role. Maybe, his uncle, grandfather, pastor, priest in good standing will do. If, the father is unavaible to assist because, of circustances. We find prisoners running into their fathers behind bars trying to advise them, at a time when it’s too late. Sure, they might listen, but the odds was great when they was in the free world trying to manuever through it. Still, no good advice is bad advice. Except, when the fool refuses to listen.
A fool keeps making mistakes. Whil, a wise listerner tries to avoid become another number according to satistics reported, by researchers. While fathers isn’t viewed highly by some just believe many great men speaks highly, with respect concerning them.