You’ve probably arrived at this article because you are currently experiencing relationship problems, possibly even broken up. You must still have feelings for them or you wouldn’t be reading this. Anyways, I can assure you that I can help with your situation, because I have been there and experienced the same thing you are going through. And it sucks I know, but you can get through it. Let’s get started.
First of all, you need to not act desperate. Even if you are still completely in love with the other person, if you have just broken up please don’t act desperate, because that will only push them farther and farther away. No matter how much you’re hurting, if you truly want to get them back, you need to portray to them that you are doing just fine and the break up really hasn’t affected you. Make them think that you are just moving on with your life.
Now I know this can be hard sometimes when you’re hurting, but if you can manage to set up a date with another girl or guy, you need to do it. Also, somehow let your ex know that you are about to be going on a date with another person. Whether you pass it along through a friend or a social media site, you need to get the message passed along. Do it! Trust me, you want them to hear about you moving on and finding another partner, because the second they hear that they will be the one calling you.
I don’t know exactly what it is or why it is that way, but it is the same for guys and girls. The more clingy and needy one person is, the more it slowly pushes the other away. But the second they stop being clingy and act like they don’t care, the situation reverses.
So I’m telling you this information because I have been there and experienced the exact same situation. I am not getting this from a book or an article. This is coming from actual personal experience, and I know what works and what doesn’t because I have definitely been through my fair share of relationships. Not saying that I am proud of that at all, but it has given me the experience I needed to be sharing this with you today. Now I’d like to share a system with you that I have used along the way that I know works for sure. It is called the Ex Recovery System, and let me tell you, it works! This is a very delicate situation that you are in and I would never recommend something that didn’t work. I really hope I have helped you today and wish you all the best!