What happens if you are having a miscarriage and you are not aware

What happens if you are having a miscarriage and you are not awar…?

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If you are not aware of a miscarriage it could be life threatening sometimes. Sometimes a DNC has to be performed.

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What does a miscarriage look like? Please help, could be very important for me to know (Kinda TMI)?

Q: Here goes, gets a bit explicit. If anybody’s read my past questions you can skip the next part, if not please read.So, last month I had a very abnormal period, which is not like me at all. Last time I had intercourse were during my days of (supposed to be) ovulation which were July 2-4th, also had intercourse before and afterwards as well, and last time was July 17. I then started my period on 18th, but was very light and short, mostly brownish discharge with little pink. (2 days, usualy I go pretty heavy for pretty much 4 days to put it short) I didn’t think about it then just assumed I wasn’t pregnant so took no tests. This month I only bled for an hour the day after I was due, brownish discharge only, then bled for another hour today lightly, but was bright red, stopped, then bled for a while bright red as well and now am not bleeding at all. (Usually I only bleed very dark red when on period) But if I were pregnant I would have been abouit 7-8 weeks is what I was told since I have not had intercourse since last month.So this is where my question comes in, today while I was bleeding, right before I stopped for the little bit, when I pulled my tampon out there was like a big tablespoon size “muscle” type material I want to say, with a lot of bright red blood. But the material, I actually picked it up, it did not separate or was not able to separate when squeezed or anything. Seriously reminded me of muscle or something, didn’t look like a normal clot at all. Maybe there are diff kind of clots that I am not aware of. Im not sure, but this just arrised to me, as it has happened before when I had the possibility of being pregnant (this would be the third time I’ve noticed it) and only with the possibility of me being pregnant has it ever happened to me.If this was in fact a miscarriage, I didn’t know, and have never been gone to get cleaned out or anything. If it was, would that be a reason I have not been able to conceive (or keep it) now as there may be damage due to that? What can I do now? Or is that just a normal thing that happens every once in a while?I took a test two test yesterday, both were negative, but didn’t take any before that. I don’t have a OB here as I just moved to this state less than a month ago, what is a good way to find one that will accept new patients? Im still waiting for my full medical benefits to kick in from work as well, which is on the 20th.And yes I have been cramping bad on and off throught the month, even when I wasn’t bleeding. Steadily getting worse and horrible today, bad lower back pains today as well, but might be from my job, I was also off last night though so maybe not. Also have been having really bad cramping after orgasm’s, whether from my partner or from masterbating, has happened everytime since middle of July. But right this second I am not bleeding, only when I go pee and wipe, but when I was bleeding earlier it was very heavy bright red.

A: You need to be working with an OB.. You should not be trusting your health to yahoo answers.. I had a very rough pregnancy complications I wasnt even aware of until the tests came back.. It may not be that you are miscarrying… It may be something to do with your female parts.. I had irregualr periods and funny things happen to me for almost 10 yrs.. then all of a sudden I was preggo… Do yourself a favor and see your OB you dont want to be preggo if there is a underlying illness that could end up harming you or the fetus.. Good Luck and be careful…

have you had a miscarriage?

Q: Stop! i’m not a girl and i haven’t had experience with a miscarriage but i wrote a song which began as me speaking about women who have miscarriages and still have hope but let me reinfor you this is a song and what started off about women and children became mor efficient about society in whole.be aware what you are about to read is copy right i am just looking on opinions for it before its realeased Title:STILL LIVE(recent was titled miscarriage)Keep your head high to the sky know you haven’t lost a thing feeling rock bottom everything’ll be okay listen to my voice believe in it when i say its all gonna be alright i’m just as much as you as your just as much as me two unknown lives living incomplete everything happens for a reson but it seems that it gets deficient as we all grow old in god i trust in faith i believe that one day i’ll meet you eye to eye and together we will see the world as we know it as perfect as can be it wasn’t your fault i know the purpose wasn’t seeked everybody has plans but no one plans to not achieve but pushed to succeed from beginning as a seed blossoming and blooming sprouting out just like the trees since you got two lips(tulips) come and sing along with me i’m overloaded with pride and even without hope i know that i can survive life goes on even after you die the only difference is you rest in peace but you still live(x2)still live and how your living is free no concerns of needing wealth or daily poverty everything is possible definite as in a dream a destiny and not a nightmarishly obscene scene cherish what you have dont lose focus through your sight where ever there’s wrong outcome notice the right vision the bright insight of protection through signs open up your mind and realize the time that you have and take advantage make a stand for yourself above all odds as if you had no help overcome all emotion everything you once felt don’t fall down baby you didn’t fail and if you start to cry hold your head like your trying to smell it’ll all go well i promise you will prevail and everything is gonna be alright, its all gonna be alright i’m overloaded with pride and even without hope i know that i can survive life goes on even after you die the only difference is you rest in peace but you still live(x2)now trust me when i say i had to struggle getting pushed at 92′ growing going in the world to gain muscle didn’t hustle but i sold some stuff can’t tell you what because i might get cuffed lord knows i have faults and request forgiveness though going to church was optional each day i was sinning listen to my pain we can share my image i’m not much to show but alot to remember through the years i felt alone only stood by me all i know is how to grow and stand on my feet realizing what’s real and despising what’s fake building myself up each time i would break but never once in my life did i regret my mistakes it made me who i am today full of passion,courage,and a heart that’s brave and brained with intelligence just to say i’m overloaded with pride and even without hope i know that i can survive life goes on even after you die the only difference is you rest in peace but you still live(x2)

A: It’s a nice song…I have had a number of miscarriages & have heard other songs that have been used before to symbolize the feelings you do through & although I think this is a nice song…I wouldn’t have had a clue that pregnancy loss inspired it if you didn’t say so. So as long as you aren’t trying to make it about that & are okay that it went a different direction then I think it’s good.

How can I help my husband get excited about getting pregnant/having a baby?

Q: Hi – I’m really getting worried. Let me begin by saying that my husband an I have been married almost a decade and love each other very much. When we first got married, we were both aware of my health problems – kidney and female parts. We never dreamed we would have so much trouble trying to have a child. We’ve had miscarriages and one that made me very sick. For most of these, my husband was away or out of the country (his job had him gone for at least 6 months out of the year)-now he has a much, much better job, but of course as with any job there are stresses. I’ve finally gotten some doctors to communicate with each other and we are very close to having them all in agreement (we’re talking about possibly on the 16th of December…), that if we are going to try again for a baby than this would be the best time to try-i’ve gone almost a whole year with no major hospitalizations, no surgeries, very few ER trips (only one was related to my health problems mentioned)- but now I can’t seem to get any spark of excitement from my husband like I used to get. John just almost seems apathetic to the situation. I understand he is somewhat afraid of what might happen to me or the child I carry- we have mourned the miscarriages and even were able to have the ashes of one miscarriage so we could have a physical letting go. I REFUSE to get pregnant on the sly -I’ve seen this happen and I could never do that to my husband – I love him too much and even if I thought I could – I NEVER can keep lies from him – not that I really try. Before, he used to be really excited about the prospect of trying to get pregnant and getting pregnant- now I don’t know what to do. I dropped a few hints but now I’ve stopped that because I don’t want him to feel like this is all I can talk about. I did tell him last week that there was only about 5 weeks to go before the doctors gave the o.k to begin trying again. I’m in my 30’s and don’t get me wrong, I’m afraid too, but I don’t want to wind up in my 40’s to find myself childless(even though I do have friends who had children beginning at age 43 – and they’ve had 3!) – I have no doubt that when the child comes, assuming I get pregnant and can carry to term, that John will be excited. I just don’t know how to get him excited again. I want to kind of try to “fix” this problem somehow but I don’t know how. I can’t promise him that we won’t miscarry -neither I nor any doctor can. And we did discuss this prior to marriage and we wanted 4 kids if we could- we planned to wait 5 years (so we could get to know each other as a couple living together) before we wanted to try-we did have an unplanned pregnancy on the pill, but I couldn’t carry that one to term. I’m praying a lot – but please give me help if you can think of any~ I’ve even begun a chest with clothes in it – some unisex-HELP!!!! I’d love to get some opinions from both Men and Women. I’m willing to do almost anything – oh one last thing – he won’t go to counselling. I don’t think he believes there is any kind of problem. Most of the time, he would get back and everything would be done with. At the time, the military didn’t have direct communication for men in his situation. There’s got to be away to get him excited – we do have lots of God Children and he’s great with them. I know he’s seen me sigh over the little ones too. I think I’ve gone on enough – HELP Please!

A: I think he’s worried about getting really excited over the baby then having to loose it. I know that’s how I would feel, just trying not to get too excited about it when nothing is sure. I’m sure he really wants it but is just a bit nervous (well, this is an opinion from a girl so I’m not sure how right it is but that is my opinion 🙂 )GOOD LUCK!!