Do i need to go to bed? Yes or no

Should I even bother going to bed? yes or no?

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why do u have to wake up so early? if ur bio final review is due this morning, then i guess continue staying up! there’s no point in sleeping for only 1 hour! u’ll just wake up groggy. i feel u, i’ve had to stay up till wee hours of the mo…

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Is this considered rape?

Q: I was 14…A little over a year ago, I was dating this guy who i though was amazing. At first i didn’t know if I wanted to go out with him because he wasn’t really my “type”…or he wasn’t that attractive. However, i gave him a chance because he was also my friend and i liked his personality. Once we had been dating for a while I began to like him more. The only thing that bothered me was that he started asking me about sex…I told him that I was not ready for sex. I told him I wanted to have sex when I was out of high school and old enough to deal with all the possible situations that could result from having sex (i.e. getting pregnant). He didn’t stop talking about it.A few weeks later he was still asking. This time it sounded like he was trying to convince me. “We could use condoms, it’ll be okay.” “Nobody will find out, they won’t think you’re a whore. I know some people who have already done it in like 5th grade.” Even with this, I let my morals guide me in my decision and said No (I did have a condom in my room from my sister because she thought we were going to be having sex soon). About 3 months into the relationship we were hanging out and he came over to my house after we got back from the stores around 9ish. He talked to me again about having sex. At this point he was talking to me everyday about it, texting me about it, commenting my myspace about it in “code”. It was overwhelming and I caved. I said yes…We went onto my bed and started making out, the condom on the headboard of the bed. Things got heated and clothes started to come off. At first, it was only our jeans but then he slowly started to push down my underwear and I told him no, I was hesitant. A million thoughts were racing through my mind. “Why am I doing this?” “How did I get in this situation?” etc. Before I knew it he already had a condom on and was trying to penetrate.It hurt so bad…I tried saying no but my voice was silenced by pain. He noticed I was in pain because I was crying. He asked if I was okay and I managed to belt out “No!” but then he decided he would make a joke since he wasn’t all the way “in” and act like he slipped…I cringed in pain and began crying again. I began saying no repeatedly but I don’t remember if he heard me because the sound may have been muffled. I kept saying it, over and over again….he didn’t stop. Then he stopped and got off me (he hadn’t cummed though) because I was crying so hard. He pushed me to one side of the bed and laid next to me. I was just laying there, I didn’t know what to say, tears still streaming. He then grabbed my hand, with me resisting as much as i could, and tried to make me give him a hand job. He was to strong so my resistance did no good. After this he just gave up…I don’t know if he understood what he did….happened several times but I came to think it was normal.I broke up with him 2 months after the first time in December of 2008…I told my current boyfriend of a year, the guy I left him for, and he says that it is rape…In my mind I know it is but i need to hear it from other peopleI’m almost 16…I know it is long but I sincerely hop that you read it all…it hurt me just to write it all out and bring back the memories that I had suppressed…I have only told my boyfriend, my best friend and my best guy friendUm I live in the United StatesI said no while it was happening so how was I not clear?!?!?!I said no when he tried taking my panties off but then he did it anywayI can’t just let go, i see him everyday at school. We have first period together and I can’t switch out.Responding to all of you saying it wasn’t violent, it was to some extent. He was and still is significantly larger than me, he probably has about 50 pounds on me and I’m not very strong. I tried to push him off every time but he would hold my arms down. He would hold down my legs with his.

A: First I recommend you listen to “I Gotta Find Peace of Mind” by Lauryn Hill on her unplugged album. It has gotten me through some of the worst times. Also Please ignore comments on here that align with rigid, outdated stereotypes about what sex is and how it happens between men and women. the fact of the matter is this, and it will be this until the end of time. IT DOES NOT MATTER what happened before the penetration, IT DOES NOT MATTER if penetration has started, if you say NO you are saying NO for a reason and you deserve to be respected. Your body (women’s bodies) were not put on this Earth to pleasure men. You are in control of your thoughts 100 percent of the time,and if you do not want a sexual act to be taking place, and speak out against it, you have done all you need to. It is not your RESPONSIBILITY to FIGHT a man who is using your body against your will, even if you two are in love, and have mutually enjoyed each others bodies before (say 10 minutes before the violation begins). I encourage you to talk to your close friends, your family if you can (I could not), professionals, anyone that you trust about this. As you grow up I think you will begin to realize that this in fact was a gross violation of your body, and you as a person. There is NO GRAY AREA when it comes to disgusting, gut wrenching, crimes like this. No one asks to be treated this way. No behavior in this world calls for rape as a response, or as a punishment. The universe has its plans for victimizers, just as it has its plans for survivors. Karma is very real. You have been through something awful and you have survived. More than likely you will never experience the kind of emotional and physical pain that accompanies rape in real time again. Some people on here have not mastered the art of empathizing, so many tunes would change if you were their daughter, their sister, or their grand-daughter. Keep all these things in mind and know that you are not alone. You are more than your body. More than your virginity. Don’t lose hope, allow this experience to confirm your strength. Bury your fears in the past, in that bed, and cast down your anchor as a new woman.

Help-please answer-i need a yes or a no to get this done!?

Q: ok, so I had sex twice the other night-once was just me bent over in the hall of his apt for like a minute (with a condom) and the other was me on his bed for like 2 minutes (with a condom). It hurt so bad becuase I havent done it in a while, but the thing is. When he pulled the first condom out he said, damn thats a small *** condom, and it was-but it went on him no problem-and i asked him if it ripped and he was like no, if it ripped i would have told you, and I asked it about the 2nd one too, and he said no wtf i would tell you! Im just a paranoid person, but I was on my period when we did that, and now my period is over (2 days later) and now im getting kida crampy and gassy-should I take plan B or just not worry about it becuase I am on a new diet of all fruits, veggies, and lean protein and working out a lot? or should i get plan b???? Thanks!! Im older by the way-20. Additional DetailsSo yall do not think that I should get plan B? Im just wondering becuase its $40-and im broke. but if i need it i will get it.There is not a planned parenthood near me by the way.SORRY IT WAS TUESDAY NIGHT!Actually the pill can be taken up to 3 days, its only be 2 & 1/2 but im not gonna get it bc i was on my P. we were doing a quickie-he can go for hours but we didnt have time. haha

A: take it to be sure… just in case… unless u can live with that person being that father of your child :-)im vegan.. change of diet can also cause your stomach to feel this way. especially if you just started this (less then a month) after a while you should feel just finep.s im also a pharmacy tech. lol you can buy plan b over the counter with an id. i recommend CVS.

Will someone pleae please PLEASE tell me if this intrests you at all? All I need is a yes or no!?

Q: All I need is a yes of you think its good or no if you don’t like it. Also if you do like it, what would some titles be? Just anything that pops into your head? Anything is good and thanks for not laughing at my poor writing skills!Clouds rolled across the sky. All was dark and quiet until distant sounds of a train rolling across a suburb of Paris through the rain echoed into a window left open. The sound rang through the house. The train so close it almost shook old pictures, sitting atop shelves. Wind rustled through the open window and knocked off a picture from its home on the wall. The glass shattered on the floor. Two feet hit the ground. They carried a tired man over to the place on the floor where the picture fell. The man looked down at the mess. He bent down and brushed glass off of it. He moved the broken wooden frame from it. He picked it up. Even in the dim light he could tell which one it was. It was a picture of him holding a little girl, fast asleep in his arms; and another woman on his side. Smiling. They were sitting on the spiral staircase in this very house. That picture was taken over seven years ago in this very house. Happier times of course. The man ran to his closet and pulled out a pair of jeans and a V neck shirt and slipped them on. He put his wallet in the back pocket and tied up his shoes. Inside the front pocket of his pants, he put the picture as he combed his hair. Two fourty-seven in the morning. The man ran to his bed side and shook his love who lay sleeping by his side for so so long. He shook her shoulder. “Please wake up”, he thought. Her eye twitched and she rolled to her other side. The man only shook harder at his love, in hopes she would wake; instead of swatting at him like she did. The man went to his window and looked out at the moon hidden behind the now falling rain. The moon was bright and full. “I can only hope you’re looking at it too, if even for a moment.” He went back to the bed and grabbed a blanket off the floor. He covered her up and kissed her cheek.”Why are you dressed?”, she mumbled, half asleep. “Amber, I have to go home.” “You are home Dylon.” “No, I mean home.”You’d also have to read the story before, so it may not make sense, but do you like the writing? Any titles come to mind? Thanks so so much!

A: whoa!!! that doesn’t deserve a yes or a no, it deserves an AWESOME!!! you are more than a pretty good writer!!!!!!!