1. Be Yourself
Some situations require us to act like somebody or something we are not. Building a love relationship is not one of those times. A healthy and long-lasting love relationship will thrive when you and your partner feel comfortable acting like yourselves
2. Treat the other person with respect
If you are trying to improve your love life, it is definitely in your best interest to learn how to respect people who are different than you. Everyone is different, but this fact becomes very apparent when working towards an intimate relationship. Mutual respect creates an environment where people feel safe talking about finding true love.
3. Listen
Listening is not a passive exercise in maintaining eye contact and nodding occasionally. Rather, listening is one of the fundamental skills of effective communication. Love thrives on effective and constructive communication skills. In order to improve your love life, practice latching on to your partner’s every word. When listening, try connecting the other’s words to your personal experiences, and what you know about the other person.
4. Be Honest
Honesty is key in just about any relationship, but it is paramount in a love relationship. The best thing to be honest about is how you are feeling. Take the time to talk about your feelings. Approach the other person with sincere and open honesty and you may be surprised about how much you learn about the other person and how quickly a meaningful connection is forged between the two of you.
5. Know what you want
Whether it is a casual “just for fun” encounter, or a serious attempt at finding the love of your life, you will need to have thought through what it is you are looking for. Create a game plan for finding exactly the kind of love you are looking for and you will already be on your way to finding it.
6. Redecorate your bedroom
If your love life is feeling a bit to “blah,” try redecorating the space where all the magic happens. Doing so will make you want to show it off and will boost your confidence when it matters most Psychologists agree that making aesthetic changes to your immediate space can have many positive influences.
7. Try new things together
Have you been in a relationship for a while, and things are just not as exciting as they used to be? Be the one to initiate a new experience together. Not only will this improve your own happiness, but it will also give you and your loved one something fun and exciting to rally around, and get that magic going again.
8. Talk about important things: goals, principles, compelling experiences
Knowing what to say on a first date or chance encounter is a major hint that you are a good catch. Talking about the weather is fine, but how about a favorite author, a current event, or asking about where the other person went to school? Most people will not hesitate to talk about themselves when given the chance. Being the one to give the other person that chance is a great way to improve your chances for love.
9. Laugh
Laughter is beneficial for your health and even burns calories: the more you laugh, the better you will look and feel. One thing that all potential love birds can agree on is that people with a sense of humor are more attractive and engaging.
10. Be conscientious
Think about a time in which someone did something special for – leaving a note or bringing you lunch for example – and recall how you felt. Pay attention to the things that your love interest likes. Knowing what to talk about with the other person will greatly increase your chances of finding love