How long can a 19 year old girl go without having her period

How long can a 19 year old girl go without having her period?

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Secondary amenorrhea is the absence of menstrual periods for 6 months in a woman who had previously been regular. See your DR.

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family problems im done, i need to know how to….answer and i’ll give best answer?

Q: okay my mom is basically a monster im not going into whats shes done i know y’all don’t like long ass concerpt. okay so basically she broke up my whole entire and blamed it on me and my aunt was in the room with me and she knows its not my fault…i called bout working on our farm and quitting my job at a childrens home due to working for $1.72/hour 19+ hours and like being abused as an employee and my aunt said i cud work for her at a lot higher wages less hours…i added it up i would make $400 dollars more working for my aunt when my termination period came up. so i called my mom and asked her how she felt(i was 19 at the time did it out of respect when i cud hav jus done what i wanted,,,) and i handled myself very maturely and properly and like my mom was hanging up on me acting like a 13 year old girl hanging up on her boy friend in a fight…i still kept my kewl she called me a quitter a loser a bum…i’ve been working every day of my life since i was 12 all i know is work shes never had a job for more than 4 months…ok so then she starts bashing my aunt and uncle when she realized tht like she wasnt getting to me an like she made a comment about my twin cousins that died in a horrible car accident she said it was my aunts fault…and it wasn’t…but like my aunt was in the room and i was defending my aunt and uncle and she picked up on contexst…i left without saying a word of what my mom had said l8r my aunt called my mom and my mom made the comment to my aunt whom lost her children in an accident…she told my aunt straight to her face that it was her fault her children died when it could have been anyone driving down the road….so my family removed my mom and my mom has been like its all your fault and stuff my aunt has another child my cousin “t” and like my mom turned to me and said its all my fualt that she will never see my beautiful cousin again that i robbed that child of something wonderful…okay so christmas is all fucked up i have like 3 christmas’s tonight was supposed to b xmas with my nanna ok my mom found out tht i was out with my aunt last night and called her mom and said lets do xmas last night and like my mom new as of thursday i had plans for friday…so i get home friday and shes like i hope its worth seeing your aunt u missed christmas….she did this on purpose i know it cuz of certain details tht like will tripple this thing in size so i wont go into it…now if u were in my position what would you do? my mom is very controling and manipulative my life as a child was horrible i was abused basically now my mom stole christmas from me…okay do you think its over board if i change my name and disapeer and start a new life with out all the abuse? the mind games and torture…they say like father like son and it goes the same way with my mom…idw to do to my children(speaking in the future) what she has done to me., would you leave? i think its right i just want to hear your thoughts see maybe if im going overboard. my whole life has been thing after thing similar to this where my mom blames everything on me and she like never loved me….ahah she shows more love to the family dog than her oldest son…what do y’all think? best answer i give to the person who can help if u have advice i’d be glad to hear it and my question is how can i disapeer without her ever being able to find me im willing to change my name…or do what ever it takes….

A: This is pretty simple to solve; you’ve done most of the analysis yourself.In your paragraph you write about your mom: “… a monster … very controlling and manipulative….”There’s a difference between loving your mom & respecting her; and then keeping her OUT of your (now) adult life and stopping the manipulation.You don’t need to change your name.You MIGHT want to consider moving to another city, esp. if you can get a good job, go to school, or something like that. Or, consider joining the military as a way to further your adult life & getting trained in a life-time skill (my eldest son is a helicopter mechanic!) Step 1: get your own life together. At 19, you’ve got your entire adult life and the whole world ready for you, grab it by the balls. It sounds like YOU have got a good head on your shoulders, you’re gonna be OK, off to a very good start. Step 2: presuming your mom is around 40 (or so) years old, recognize the fact she’s still a junior-high school b*+ch drama queen who thinks the world rotates around her @$$. You don’t need THAT in your life at this point in time. Respect the fact she’s your mom & love her: send her a card at her birthday, mothers day, & Christmas… but you don’t NEED to do much more than that. Don’t call her, and don’t pick up the phone when she calls. Imagine what kind of f’n drama she’ll lay on you some day when you meet some nice girl, get married, start your own family… you do NOT want that stuff to continue. God bless you. I wish you good luck. Merry Christmas.

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Q: Dear Connie,I know the counselor said we shouldn’t contact each other during our cooling off” period, but I couldn’t wait anymore. The day you left, I swore I’d never talk to you again. But that was just the wounded little boy in me talking. Still, I never wanted to be the first one to make contact. In my fantasies, it was always you who would come crawling back to me. I guess my pride needed that. But now I see that my pride’s cost me a lot of things.I’m tired of pretending I don’t miss you. I don’t care about looking bad anymore. I don’t care who makes the first move as long as one of us does. Maybe it’s time we let our hearts speak as loudly as our hurt. And this is what my heart says: “There’s no one like you, Connie.” I look for you in the eyes and breasts of every woman I see, but they’re not you. They’re not even close.Two weeks ago, I met this girl at Flamingos and brought her home with me. I don’t say this to hurt you, but just to illustrate the depth of my desperation. She was young, maybe 19, with one of those perfect bodies that only youth and maybe a childhood spent ice skating can give you. I mean, just a perfect body. Tits like you wouldn’t believe and an ass that just wouldn’t quit. Every man’s dream, right? But as I sat on the couch being blown by this stunner, I thought, look at the stuff we’ve made important in our lives. It’s all so superficial. What does a perfect body mean? Does it make her better in bed? Well, in this case, yes, but you see what I’m getting at. Does it make her a better person? Does she have a better heart than my moderately attractive Connie? I doubt it. And I’d never really thought of that before. I don’t know, maybe I’m just growing up a little.Later, after I’d tossed her about a half a pint of throat yogurt, I found myself thinking, “Why do I feel so drained and empty?” It wasn’t just her flawless technique or her slutty, shameless hunger, but something else. Some nagging feeling of loss. Why did it feel so incomplete? And then it hit me. It didn’t feel the same because you weren’t there to watch. Do you know what I mean?Nothing feels the same without you. Jesus, Connie, I’m just going crazy without you. And everything I do just reminds me of you.Do you remember Carol, that single mom we met at the Holiday Inn lounge last year? Well, she dropped by last week with a pan of lasagna. She said she figured I wasn’t eating right without a woman around. I didn’t know what she meant till later but that’s not the real story. Anyway, we had a few glasses of wine and the next thing you know, we’re banging away in our old bedroom. And this tart’s a total monster in the sack. She’s giving me everything, you know, like a real woman does when she’s not hung up about her weight or her career and whether the kids can hear us. And all of a sudden, she spots that tilting mirror on your grandmother’ s old vanity. So she puts it on the floor and we straddle it, right, so we can watch ourselves. And it’s totally hot, but it makes me sad, too. Cause I can’t help thinking, “Why didn’t Connie ever put the mirror on the floor? We’ve had this old vanity for what, 14 years, and we never used it as a sex toy.”Saturday, your sister drops by with my copy of the restraining order. I mean, Vicky’s just a kid and all, but she’s got a pretty good head on her shoulders and she’s been a real friend to me during this painful time. She’s given me lots of good advice about you and about women in general. She’s pulling for us to get back together, Connie, she really is. So we’re doing Jell-O shots in a hot bubble bath and talking about happier times. Here’s this teenage girl with the same DNA as you and all I can do is think of how much she looked like you when you were 18. And that just about makes me cry. And then it turns out Vicky’s really into the whole anal thing, that gets me to thinking about how many times I pressured you about trying it and how that probably fueled some of the bitterness between us. But do you see how even then, when I’m thrusting inside your baby sister’s cinnamon ring, all I can do is think of you? It’s true, Connie. In your heart you must know it. Don’t you think we could ever start over? Just wipe out all the grievances and start fresh? I think we can. If you feel the same please, please, please let me know. Otherwise, can you let me know where the fucking remote is.Love,Dick

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Q: I am 19 and work at an auto parts store for $8 an hour. I finished high school last year while living with my older sister. Immediately after high school I began attending automotive trade school with the help of my mom. She helped me with school payments and truck insurance and promised me the use of her apartment until I graduated a year later. The plan was that she and her new husband would move to their dream home and let me live in the apartment until the lease was up while helping me through school. I worked every night after school to pay for school, gas and food and everything was working. Long story short, I met and began dating a girl who I should mention is by no means a bad influence in anyone’s eyes (and I currently live with). My mom really liked her at first. Everything was going well until my mom, who has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder suddenly decided that my girlfriend was a terrible person and went nuts. (Actually, this is the reason I lived with my sister all through high school) She quit helping me, kicked me out of the apartment, and withheld ALL of my belongings (most of which I had paid for with MY job). She told me that she put it all in storage and that I would have to pay her to get it back. I finally gave in and paid her and followed them to the storage unit. I collected my things, while she and her husband stood by and told me I was ruining my life by not doing everything their way. I found that there was about $200 worth of things missing (Also mine) and I told them I wanted them back. They admitted that they had these things and refused to give them to me. Her and her husband started a fight and came after me and in the end, they called the cops and had me arrested, blaming me for it all. Now, I still work at the same parts store and would do anything to be able to go back to school while I can. The school told me that if I go back before September that I would not have to pay the $5,000 again for the classes I had completed. If I re-enrolled after September, I would start at square one. My question is this: What can I do to go back to school on my own and still support myself? All of my old friends now work at Mercedes Benz or Audi dealerships; it makes me feel like a total failure. I would do anything to finish school and get the job I have wanted for years. I did fill out the FAFSFA and even won several scholarships but without a cosigner (which I can’t get), I can only receive a limited loan, the school costs more than that amount. That is one of my biggest problems, the next problem is that I need to be closer to the school to be able to attend, as the place I currently live is too far to be practical. ANY practical ideas are greatly appreciated! Thank you to everyone who answers.P.S. Please don’t tell me that I should have just given in, that wouldn’t have worked. My mom has her good periods, but every few months, she loses all rationality. That is why I couldn’t live with her during high school.

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