Why do pregnant women act so insane

Why do pregnant women act so insane

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It’s common to have mood swings during pregnancy, because of hormonal changes that affect your levels of neurotransmitters ChaCha!

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im pregnant and the father to be is insane !!?

Q: im 12 weeks pregnant and i probably have the wierdest story to tell while going threw my pregnancy.my ex boyfriend father to be isnt normal at all i will explain to you all why that is…when i told him i was pregnant he told me im a good actress and doesnt believe that im having his baby.he said to me why do you women always tell lies to me about being pregnant and try to destroy my life?!? i was gob smacked when he told me that! i wasnt lieing to him i thought to my self so why is he acting this way? anyhows i even told his mum and she believes me but noooooo he still doesnt and says im a very smart person and acting is wat i can do best by lieing and hes asking me why am im trying to mess with his head.hes telling me that im working with sum people to ruin his life and they pay me money to pretend for me to be pregnant and that when he finds out who is setting him up he will kill them!! oh my gosss!!!!! wat an insane thought!!! i know this is not normal but he was never like this before i left him. we used to live together and then after i left him he started to hang around wierd people and he started to think that people are listening in on his phone by some kind of spying device….. while writing all this i realizing how more and more he s starting to sound like hes paranoid/schizophrenic. and when i try to tell him this is not normal for him to be thinking this way and him accusing me of doing such things like pretending that im pregnant he starts to get angry and last time i saw him he kicked me out of his house. i just want him to know that he is going to be a father and that the baby is real but everytime we talk its about these insane things that i wrote about b4 and i m telling you its streessing me out so much becus all i want is him to know he will be a father.i care about him as well and am worried that he ll always have insane thoughts. i dont know wat happened to him during these passes few months cus he never tells me anything just accuses me of lieing.i want to help him as well but i dont know wat to do.i dont want to be with him at all becus of how he is. so i am getting used to the fact that i will be a single mum in the future.so i need as much advice as possible plz!!! becus i dont know what i shud do? after the last arguement when he threw me out of his house i decided to stay away forever for the well being of my self and the baby. but what if he changes his mind and decides to be part of the babys life and still is thinking insane about life.i dont think i want my baby around a sick in the head father.but i cant keep his child away from him can i ?? it wud be so heartless….he doesnt want to admit hes wrong in the head so no one can help him not even his mother which she also know some thing is not right with his head either!(she has told me her self over the phone} so plz help so mayb i can help him to get better but how????? thank you for reading my life story it means so much to me if you decide to give me some good advice xxx

A: Okay I read most if it, and what I would do is tell him that if he doesnt want to believe thats fine, but you are giving him the choice to take part in his childs life. Even invite him to an obgyn apt to see the ultrasound and once the baby is born get a paternity test but if he is acting this way you may not need him around you or the baby anyhow. Just give him some space and let him decide what he wants he may just be overwhelmed and acting like this to drive you away.

hes going through depression and even feels guilt having sex?

Q: my fiance is going through some serious anxiety and depression issues.. they might even thinks he has ocd, well he hears his voice in his head telling him everything he does is wrong .. and like it always tells him he is going to die, well today i thought maybe id try to get his mind off of things and show him some pleasure… it was alright at first, but then i wanted to make love and i told him id get on top because he thinks ( if a pregnant women gets on top it will get you sick) or something i dk its hard to explain he thinks he gets signs he is going to die he needs help i knw.. but i got on top and told him not to worry and i just felt so uncomfortable! never felt that way before, and his face looked like sad like he was going to cry i said whats wrong! he said i feel guilty doing this.. and i dont understand why he is now like this we used to be VERY sexually active nice sexual relationship.. i cant beleive depression does this to someone, what should i do now? how do i stop…14 minutes ago – 3 days left to answer. Additional Details12 minutes agofeeling that embarresment feeling.. i would also like 2 add we are not currently living with eachother, we will soon we will be having a son in may.. but i dont know you guys might think im insane, but im not its just so weird seeing someone you met and love them for 2 years and then they start getting very depressed and cry all the time, and act different with the things they used to like doing.. and i would also like to add he is ignoring other people10 minutes agosorry for the descriptive story lol

A: Men can have weird feelings during pregnancy and often worry about harming the baby during sex. I think what he is feeling is anxiety and its normal. It shows he cares and is worried about your safety and that of his unborn child. I think his thoughts of death are not normal and needs to be addressed by a professional. Men can feel like they are losing themselves or have fears about being a father manifest in different ways. I would ask him to go talk to him doctor and see if his doctor can give him something to help him relax. You can reasure him that sex, in any position, is fine in pregnancy as long as your ob hasn’t said not to.

Sick mind game or real life shit?

Q: Hi, I hope i’m not viewed as insane when I finish this post. But I just have to ask. I’m dealing with the most sick shit I’ve ever heard.Me and a associate of mine are at war about the craziest thing I’ve ever experienced. We both come from different sides of the track and we are both african american but don’t agree on the way blacks live their life. I think most but differentially not all in the black community is lazy and use excuses for most of their problems. My mom work for the USPS and the went back to school at the age of 43 to school starting from community collage and ended up with a Master degree from Loyola University. She come from the projects with a mother that died when she was 16 yrs old. She pulled herself out with hardly any help from family or the community and brought a home by age 30, married, obtain a government job and raised two kids that were her own. My sister and I are both adopted. Her husband died at age 43 and she still managed to raise both of us and get a degree. I’m tired of hearing people complain about the life I feel they created for themselves. I understand that in the black community the schools are not up to par. But I didn’t know how to use a computer or any of the programs associated with it until I taught myself. I didn’t know how to type until I taught myself. I didn’t know how to write a resume, get a decent paying job, cook, or any number of things I can’t fit here until I taught myself. I really don’t get you watching your mother struggle and then getting pregnant by 16, I don’t get high school drop outs, I don’t get welfare mothers, and I don’t get what the white man has to do with you killing your neighbor because you are jealous of him or over the of number of bullshit I hear everyday. Because of this views and opinions I feel are my right as an American, she tells me I’m trifling, trashy, hoodrat. I don’t see anything about me that’s trifling. I don’t have a college degree but I am taking classes, have a decent paying job, and keep myself up very well. As far as trashy and hoodrat, well,I know of at least 2 girls that have had more casual sex, that hasn’t resulted in anything but a wet ass, in the first 4 months of this year then I’ve had in the last 2 years and I wasn’t raised in the hood.She tells me that I should feel empathy for the black community and their plight but I have none. Sorry, if this offends anyone but this is how I feel. I feel the problem is with the raising of offspring, respect of life, and life decisions that keep us where we are. So, in order to show me why the black community struggles she made me a wager. If I act like a poor, uneducated, trifling, hoodrat (can someone give me the definition) she will be able to give me an understanding of why blacks are and act the way they do. I think this is the sickest shit I’ve ever heard. Because we’ve been actively having this debate for awhile now, it has made me more conscious of my own life and the actions of others. And I have to tell you we look worse then ever. I mean no offense to the hard working, educated, black men and women out there. But I tired of seeing people sit on their ass having baby after baby, paying hardly any rate, being fed with stamps complaining about THEIR life. No one asked you to bring any one of those kids here, no one told you to stop schooling, no one told you to sit around all day like your waiting to die. It’s not my fault or the ‘white man’s’ it’s yours. I think if you put as much effort into education as you do procreating, gossiping, and milk the system we would come out on top. If your kids are in school from 8 – 3 Mon – Fri there’s no reason you can’t go back to school to get educated. Especially when you sit on the porch gossiping, fighting over man that don’t give a damn, and still at the end of the day don’t have a decent meal cooked for your kids. Wtf have you been doing all day? Cleaning? it normally takes me three hours to cook and clean. All comments are appreciated…Sorry for the long post…Good Day!

A: I do not think your crazy! I wish more peiople thoiught like this!! I think it is a individual mindst! Its up to you what you want in life if you want to act like a hoodrat! A hoodrat is a person who wants to run the street and eat all the worls garbage!! She wants you to relize that its up to you to say no to what others are doing and saying and to go to school and find good friends that are going places. That its okay for people whio fall on hard times to use wefare but not to use it as a life way!! Its better for your mind to get out and ecomplish things!!