Should i forgive my friend for getting my wife pregnant

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Should I forgive my best friend for sleeping with my GF?
Q: This all happened BEFORE she and I officially hooked up.She and I would always flirt in front of him. He was overweight and she was not attracted to him. He was married and his wife was pregnant with their first child. He knew I had a huge crush on her b/c I’d always talk about her to him.One time, she and I were drinking and he called me and he said, “Is she with u,” I said, “Yes,” and he came by. I was supposed to drive her home and he said, “Don’t worry, u have to work tomorrow, I will drive her home.” Well, she was SUPER drunk and he told me that he had made out with her.Then a few months later, his pregnant wife was out of town and we were at his house with some friends drinking and he kept pouring her drinks trying to get her drunk b/c according to him, “She’s an alcoholic and, “She has a drinking problem.”I asked her MANY times to leave with me so I could drop her home. I NEVER tried to make out with her when she was drunk. She’d ask me and I’d say, “We’ll talk about hooking up when ur sober.”Well, he told me he got her drunk and he slept with her.She told me that it never happened b/c he kept trying to make out with her, and she was drunk and did make out with him, but when he took his clothes off, b/c he was fat and had manboobs and extra skin, she was so turned off that she just went to sleep b/c she is “SO NOT ATTRACTIVE TO HIM.”He first told me, “I made her breakfast,” and then he said, “Yeah, I hit that sh*t.” But it took him 4 months to tell me.I told her I only want to know b/c I can’t have two friends -one of them my now GF, lying to me. I want to know if she is lying to me. I want her to be honest.She says, “I wish I had left with u that nite. But I have no regrets.” But she also says, “I swear on my family and my unborn children that I did not sleep with him. I know it would have hurt u if I did b/c I know u had a crush on me.”Is she lying to me or is he? He told other people that he is not close with that he “wore that azz out,” but he’d always kind of IMPLY that he slept with her but he never flat out told me until many months later. And, he said, “She does stupid sh*t when she’s drunk,” which led me to believe that she rejected him but he doesn’t want to feel like a loser for having a drunk girl at his house and him not sleep with her and get rejected.Who do I believe? How do I know if she is lying or if he is? She said that she remembers everything and she didn’t sleep with him but first she told me, “I don’t remember anything from that night.”I have been with her when we have both been drunk and if she is not in the mood, she will not have sex, so I am thinking that maybe she does remember that nite and she did not sleep with him.The funny thing is that, even after he found out we were together, he STILL tried to sleep with her 2 times afterwards.
A: Too much analyzing to do. If there are that many doubts and questions in your mind you should just dump her and drop him too. Life’s too short for that crap.
I’m in love with my heterosexual best friend, why can’t he forgive me for having sex with his wife?
Q: Mitch and I have been best friends since middle school. We’re 29 years old now. I’m a closeted bisexual man but I’m slowly but surely coming out of the closet. Mitch has been my best friend for 16 years but the love I felt for him was secretly bigger than that. My entire family loves him because Mitch grew up with an alcoholic mother and a physically abusive father. So, they showed him support and even came to live with us at some point. I have the COOLEST parents in the world. Mitch dated my twin sister for three years, he got her pregnant and they had a girl. Two months later, the girl I was dating at the time gave birth to my son. So, we both became fathers around the same time(age 17). My sister died in a car accident a year after my son and my niece was born. I admit I was always jealous of the fact that my sister was dating my best friend but believe me, I was hurt and devastated when my sister died. So, Mitch and I shared everything together and we became more like “moms” than dads. My parents helped us raise the kids being that my sister died and my son’s mother lost custody of my son when they found marijuana in his system when he was born. We dated girls here and there(I SECRETLY had sex with other guys) but for the most part, it’s always been about ME, MITCH, MY SON and HIS DAUGHTER(MY NIECE).But 4 years ago, Mitch met April and he fell so hard in love it made me sick. Once again, I felt like another woman was taking Mitch away from me. But on the other hand, I admit that I was attracted to April in addition to being secretly in love with Mitch. Mitch cheated on April once and I gave her a shoulder to cry on. But I was PISSED when she decided to take him back due to my feelings for him, not her. We’ve been flirting for 4 years before something finally happened. By the time April and I had sex, he and Mitch was already married with an infant son together. This affair went on for 6 months until Mitch found out about it when his old nosy neighbor opened up her huge mouth. Mitch confronted me at my job and attacked me with his fists almost getting me fired and himself arrested. He left April for 2 months and then he moved back in. But he won’t talk to me still and its totally not fair. I do NOT want his wife! I tried to apologize. I love Mitch so much and I told him that in a very long letter I wrote to him expressing my REAL feelings for him. He emailed me calling me a “homo” and a “f*gg*t” and that I need to “get medical help”.I know I was wrong but it breaks my heart. Why is Mitch always choosing women over me? And does he have the right to forbid me from seeing my niece? That’s the ONLY PIECE OF MY SISTER THAT I HAVE LEFT!! My son and his daughter are cousins but they’re like siblings. They’re 12 years old. How could he take it out on THEM? I love Mitch and its a shame he doesn’t reciprocate. How am I any more wrong than April is? Should Mitch be preaching to anyone about faithfulness when he cheated on April? What should I do?
A: Wow that was a long read but yea he more mad at u because hes had more trust in u then her . U two had a bond and he feels that u broke it and he will most likely let the kids hang out but it will most likely may never be the same as it was before between the to of u.
LGBT: I’m in love with my straight best friend, was it fair that he forgave his wife for the affair but not me?
Q: Mitch and I have been best friends since middle school. We’re 29 years old now. I’m a closeted bisexual man but I’m slowly but surely coming out of the closet. Mitch has been my best friend for 16 years but the love I felt for him was secretly bigger than that. My entire family loves him because Mitch grew up with an alcoholic mother and a physically abusive father. So, they showed him support and even came to live with us at some point. I have the COOLEST parents in the world. Mitch dated my twin sister for three years, he got her pregnant and they had a girl. Two months later, the girl I was dating at the time gave birth to my son. So, we both became fathers around the same time(age 17). My sister died in a car accident a year after my son and my niece was born. I admit I was always jealous of the fact that my sister was dating my best friend but believe me, I was hurt and devastated when my sister died. So, Mitch and I shared everything together and we became more like “moms” than dads. My parents helped us raise the kids being that my sister died and my son’s mother lost custody of my son when they found marijuana in his system when he was born. We dated girls here and there(I SECRETLY had sex with other guys) but for the most part, it’s always been about ME, MITCH, MY SON and HIS DAUGHTER(MY NIECE).But 4 years ago, Mitch met April and he fell so hard in love it made me sick. Once again, I felt like another woman was taking Mitch away from me. But on the other hand, I admit that I was attracted to April in addition to being secretly in love with Mitch. Mitch cheated on April once and I gave her a shoulder to cry on. But I was PISSED when she decided to take him back due to my feelings for him, not her. We’ve been flirting for 4 years before something finally happened. By the time April and I had sex, he and Mitch was already married with an infant son together. This affair went on for 6 months until Mitch found out about it when his old nosy neighbor opened up her huge mouth. Mitch confronted me at my job and attacked me with his fists almost getting me fired and himself arrested. He left April for 2 months and then he moved back in. But he won’t talk to me still and its totally not fair. I do NOT want his wife! I tried to apologize. I love Mitch so much and I told him that in a very long letter I wrote to him expressing my REAL feelings for him. He emailed me calling me a “homo” and a “f*gg*t” and that I need to “get medical help”.I know I was wrong but it breaks my heart. Why is Mitch always choosing women over me? And does he have the right to forbid me from seeing my niece? That’s the ONLY PIECE OF MY SISTER THAT I HAVE LEFT!! My son and his daughter are cousins but they’re like siblings. They’re 12 years old. How could he take it out on THEM? I love Mitch and its a shame he doesn’t reciprocate. How am I any more wrong than April is? Should Mitch be preaching to anyone about faithfulness when he cheated on April? What should I do?
A: No he shouldn’t be preaching to anyone. However, I can understand why he is so upset with you. He saw you as his brother and you betrayed him in the worst possible way. He may never get over it. You really broke his trust. I mean, if you truly love him as much as you say you do then why did you sleep with his wife and continue to do it? Once I could see was a mistake but to continue doing it for 6 months I wouldn’t have forgiven you either.
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